God's plan is the best!

About the bgr issue, we've finally settled it. The problem was, we weren't sure how best to start or end this complicated and weird relationship. Today, we finally realised that God had put us together to accomplish His plans. IOW, plan A was God's plan for me and plan B was God's plan for her. So basically we talked about it today and both of us were in fact happy and relieved. The focus was not about OUR relationship and whether we started but the focus was on what God was doing in our lives just by bringing us together. Yes, plan A and B were successful and i'm really happy and relieved. That's all that matters now. Maybe some of you might ask, "you seem happy that you're not together!" But that's really not the point. The point is whether God's will was done. And God's will was accomplished! These few days i've been trying to figure out what is God really doing. It's like a jigsaw puzzle where i find pieces and put them together to form the whole picture. I completed the puzzle, showed it to her and we both were happy. Too weird for you to know maybe, but it's just amazing.

In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief.
The Desire of Ages, p. 330.

BTW, i took "get a gf" out from my resolutions in the next 5 yrs. I believe God has a plan for me so it's useless putting it there.